The summer wedding is officially announced. But we have a feeling that they already knew. Most likely, you have been invited to double, if not quadruple, the number of weddings this year after the world reopens. Although it is undoubtedly an exciting time to be married, a married woman, a participant in a wedding celebration or a guest – it is certainly a bit overwhelming, especially in the finance department.

Weddings are far from inexpensive – no matter how interesting they are — and if you multiply the amount you have to attend, it may seem to you that you are spending a lot more than your budget allows. This is especially true for weddings when you travel long distances and need to spend one or more nights at a hotel. “Because of the higher costs of travel, food, hotel and transportation, weddings in your locations can cost thousands of dollars,” notes Abby Eisencraft of Choice TaxSolutions Inc.
“Take into account the delay before and after the event, not just the wedding day itself, which should be funded out of your own pocket, and you may want to make this event a longer holiday for yourself.”


For bridesmaids, the costs are even higher. In addition to buying a special dress, which you will probably have to make to order, you will need shoes and accessories, as well as other pre-wedding events, including a bridal shower and a bachelorette party. “Average costs vary, but it is safe to say that it is necessary to allocate significant funds, which can amount to thousands,” Eisencraft notes.

The good news is that there are ways to be a wedding guest without breaking the bank. Here, financial experts share their innermost secrets about how to plan financial affairs as a wedding guest in the midst of a wedding boom.

The rhythm itself


Especially if you are not sure whether it is worth spending money on pure pleasure, personal finance expert Farnush Torabi recommends doing it slowly, even month after month. “It can be really tempting to experiment with all this now that we are fully vaccinated. Our friends’ posts on social media about their trips and experiences certainly won’t make us feel like we’re not getting the most out of summer,” she says. “It’s important to develop a plan and spend consciously, not guided by impulses, and, of course, be realistic about what you can afford.”

She recommends distributing your trips or trips in such a way that between them you have time to restore or replenish your savings. This may mean that you will have to give up one or two weddings that you will not be able to attend. It will also help you to enjoy what you have chosen even more.

Plan ahead


A lot of last-minute promotions are associated with price increases or express payments, from booking flights and hotels to organizing a change of clothes. To avoid overspending, Erica de la Cruz of Passion to Paycheck recommends planning as much as possible in advance. “This gives them time to find suitable offers about what the bride and groom would like to have as accommodation, travel and clothing, or to book a room together with another part of the bride,” she says. “Instead of constantly looking for a hotel nearby, sometimes you can find a house that you can rent together with the newlyweds or wedding guests, which is much more fun anyway.”

Be picky in your outfit.

One of the advantages, due to the fact that he has not been to a wedding for a long time recently, is that